Have you ever had one of those weeks where you question homeschooling, thinking about running out of the house screaming, maybe pulling your hair out? It has been one of those weeks at our house.
I don’t know if is the change to school in the mornings, I doubt it or this new “NO” phase my 7 year old is going through but what a week. Our week started out with handwriting and I asked him to write his ABCs both lower and upper case. He told me he did not remember his ABCs, I know he knows his ABCs. Let us just say requiring him to write his letters created all kinds of tears and drama. He cried saying, “but Mom even 7 year olds forget things” (I tried really hard not to laugh at that). Our whole week was like this, it was one of those weeks.
In order for me not to pull my hair our I made a few changes to our day to see if you couldn’t get a better week going. First thing I did was get out my kitchen timer. There is no reason at all to spend an hour doing one handwriting page or math worksheet. He was not happy when I set up the timer and told him he had to get his page done before the buzzer went off. He fussed and complained loudly saying, he couldn’t get it done it time etc. After a while though he got into the game of it, I wonder if I can finish before the timer, I am going to finish before it gets to 5 minutes left etc. As long as it got done correctly I was fine with it, anything to get him moving and working.
Next thing I have done it break the day up. We usually work straight through get our school work done and are finished with book work for the day. I am working on one or two subjects and then letting him take a small 10 or 15 min. break to play, run around, or get a snack. It is taking us so much longer to get school work done but it seems to be helping with the complaining, and the dawdling. Did I mention dawdling drives me crazy, can not stand it.
He generally good about school work but the last few weeks have been a test in my patience. I hope the changes I have made will help get us back on track. I am sure I am not the only homeschooler who has had days or weeks like this. While I love homeschooling some days are harder than others.
Have a good week!


